Sunday, July 20, 2008

To lollapaloozalicious.
Thank you for taking care of brown bear. He used to sit here in the pride of the home. Only two persons can sit on this chiar, Mamafess and brown bear.

Yes, he needed a bath and also some repair.
Thank you for doing that
http://lollapaloozalicious.blogspot.com/

I am glad he has found a new home and also a new mama.

Saturday, June 14, 2008


I have three sons. The eldest, will be completing his poly diploma soon and will be enlisted by April 1st 2009 for National Service, my second son will be nine soon and my youngest, will be turning three in August.

When my friend gave birth to her only son fifteen years ago, she took steps to migrate to Australia as she does not want her son to serve National Service. I have another friend who has five sons now living in New Zealand yet have taken the bold or may I say practical decision to ensure that all her five sons will serve national services.

I read with anguish the pain that Clifton Lam’s mother must be going through now. Although the Pilot Officer Cadet fulfilled his dream posthumously to be a pilot, I am sure that his family would rather he be alive.

If our sons and soldiers were to die in the line of fire or while on duty serving our country it might not be as painful as having them die from routine training. The sense of uselessness and futility is compounded and the search for answer must be forth coming so that the faith we have in the National Service system can be regained and rebuilt.

I must confess that I was tempted to follow my friend’s footstep and migrate in order that our sons need not go through National Services in the past.

But National Service is the backbone of our defense strategy. As our population is small, we do not have the luxury to have a large professional army. Singapore depends on her citizen army to defend and protect her.
Thus, most of us willing send our sons to do National Service yet worried for them. We have faith that the army will take care of them when they are in camp. The SAF have also improved it communication system in its effort to assure the parents that their sons are in good hands.

When my husband was enlisted over twenty three years ago, we were only allowed to see him off at a community center. For the next three weeks, his mother and I were in limbo as we do not know what kind of life he was going through.

Now parents are invite to Pulau Tekong to see the facilities and living conditions that their sons will be in before they start Basic Military Training. Food has been out sourced so that they are more edible now then before, they are provided with trolley bags with wheels so that they need not carry the heavy Ali Baba bags like in the past and they are transported in air-con comfort unlike before where they have to endure the boneshaker.

Yet two training fatalities in two days have result in a seismic shift in our trust in the training regime and system.

There is a need for the mothers and fathers to be convinced that there are system and check in place that will ensure that our sons do not die from a simple yet preventable ailment like heat stroke.

According to Dr. Bernard Loo, a specialist in defence studies at the Institute of Defence and Strategic Studies, safety regulations in the Singapore Armed Forces were already one of the most stringent in the world.

What more could the SAF do to re-assure parents that their sons are in good hands? Perhaps it is time to change the mind set of the training system. Maybe our soldiers must learn to draw the line and learn to say no when they do not feel well.

When I was growing up in the 1970’s there was this pop song with this lyric
“Billy, don't be a hero! Don't be a fool with your life!”

Perhaps it is now time to look at the attitude and beliefs of our soldiers and trainer officers towards training. After all,training systems, regulations and procedures are run by people.

Are there too many “heroes” in the SAF?

The writer is a mother of six and believes that NS a vital part for the survival of Singapore.

Old friend

This is the set of construction bricks that I played with when I was young. It was a pleasant surprise to see that my mum still keep some of my toys after all these years. (P.S. I am already 45 years old)



This is the fan that was brought for my mum when she got married. It should be more than 45 years old, KDK and has NEVER I repeat NEVER broken down. Says a lot about present day fan


This is the vanity mirror that was part of her wedding gift.


Guess who? About 4 years old.


Yours truly on her wedding day.


Old photo, like old friends are hard to come by. I hope to get in touch with some great friends from SAC like Chan Wei Yee, Agatha Quick, Chay Sow Wan, Susan Wang Kee Ngor , and of course the Pink Panther.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Uncle Gana having breakfast.

Mama trying to wake up






Mama with a cute baby


Mama blogging to show you the blog


This is mama bloging.





She is having breakfast with Uncle Gana.





Mama playing with a baby

Monday, June 2, 2008

Today Mama went to a war museum






This is an American plane.

This is a tank.
















This is another view of the tank.


Mama's friends and mama at a plane.
To day, mama went to the History Meusum.



Later I visited a children and I met the nun who runs the home.




















Uncle Gana and I had coffee at a road side cafe.


This is the tour guide who is showing us around Vietnam.

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Dear Atticus, Ariel and Moshi

Today mama was at Cu Chi tunnel. This is a model of a sholider who fought in the Vietnam War.



This is mama posing infront of a tank.

















Mama aslo bought two pair of shoes made from rubber tyre.




















Later, mama and her friend Mrs Nathern had lunch at place called Indochine.




Mama missed you all very much.

Bless moshi, bless ariel, bless atticus, bless bel, bre and gus

Friday, May 30, 2008

Especially for mushi, ariel and atticus not forgeting bel, bre and gus

This is teh plane that mummy took.







Mummy sitting in the president's chair.



Mummy with her friends.


This is the suit that mummy is in.



This is how mummy looks like 20 years ago

Friday, March 21, 2008

Puff the magic garden


The Asean (Association of South-east Asian Nations) Agreement on Transboundary Haze Pollution was signed in 2002. Yet not surprising, only Indonesia, where most of the fire occur, is the only country that has not ratified it.

According to Mr Alvin Lie, a legislator from the National Mandate Party, the benefits of ratifying the pact are smaller compared to the obligations. With ratification, Indonesia would be obligated to introduce legislation and measures to promote zero-burning policy.

Before Indonesia’s neighbours begin to criticise Indonesia for dragging it feet, we must understand Indonesia’s point of view. Banning or curbing clearing the forest by fire might prove to be an unpopular legislation.
The late Indonesian President Soeharto renewed a ban on this practice of slash-and-burn (S&B) as a means of land clearing in 1997. But this practice continued till today and prosecutions take time. Thus few small holding farmers have stuck to this ban.

Clearly the advantages of using S&B out weight the prospects of being charged in court.

S & B clear space while the ash acts as a fertilizer. In addition, burning allows the seedling to grow faster as the soil structure is improved and weeds are prevented from growing. Finally, this method reduced the possibility of diseases and pests as the burning acts as a form of sterilization.

Unless alternatives to S&B bring about similar benefits, Indonesia farmers will not be motivated to stop this practice.

For example, clearing the land and removing the wood only clear the space for the farmers without the additional benefits that S&B brings. Farmers would then have to spend money on fertilisers, insecticides and herbicides which would add to the cost of production. Thus, the possibility of farmers abandoning this method or considering an alternative method is slim.

Yet, S&B is known to deplete forests and biodiversity, contribute as much as 25 % to global warming. Each year in August, the farmers in Indonesia are expected to clear the land using this method.

What can Asean do to motivate the farmers to stop S&B to clear land?

One possibility is to bring direct foreign investment (DFI) in manufacturing into the agricultural areas while consolidating the small holding farms own by these farmers. Once the farmers earn more income by working in the factories, they would be willing to give up being farmers. Meanwhile their farms can be consolidated so that these farms can be operated in an extensive, large scale operation like the plantations in Malaysia.

Malaysia does not use the S&B method to clear the land and have been able to make plantation a profitable and viable economic alternative compared to small scale farming.

Perhaps Singapore should take the lead by bring more DFI into Indonesia. It could provide training for the farmers to equip them with the skills to work in the manufacturing sectors while other Asean members like Malaysia and Brunei can start to invest in Indonesia. Concerned developed countries like USA, Britain and the European Union can now play a direct role in helping to reduce the carbon footprint of Indonesia by following suit.

It has been demonstrated empirically that as a country develop, the portion of its population working in the primary agricultural sector will decrease.

If Asian can collectively offer this carrot, I am sure that Indonesia will find that the benefits of ratifying the pact are bigger compared to the obligations that signing this pact will bring.

Fighting the haze can no longer be seen as a national issue with Indonesia being the sole fire fighter. Neither can we focus on fighter fighting strategies like mobilising resources to fight the fires triggered by S&B practices.

Unless there is a significant wind of change, we can expect the fire in Indonesia to continue burning.